Hey everyone,
So here is the thing. I'm writing a book. In case you couldn't tell by the title. But instead of writing something that I "think" you guys will enjoy, I'm going to flip it around and ask you guys what you want to know about and then write it. Makes sense right?
So how are you guys going to help me out? Well its all pretty easy.
All you have to help me out with is to answer this one question for me. The question is
"What is the single most important thing you have trouble with when it comes to dating and relationships?"
So here is the deal.
This question applies to both girls and guys! Anyone and everyone can answer. I will warn you that I sent this question out to my friends list and the majority of the guys replied to this one. So girls, its time for you to step in and speak up!!
I wanna know what problems you have. What troubles you the most. What annoys you the most. What confuses you the most about dating and relationships. Everyone needs to spill your guts. You can write a comment here or link back from your blog.
My first book I'm going to aim at guys or girls, it just depends on which gender needs the most help.
BONUS SURPRISE
Ok so here is the deal. Because you guys are helping me out to write this amazing book, then we are going to have a small little competition. Person who gives me the best response as judged by Me and 2 of my best friends will win my new book when it comes out. Should be about a Month from now.
PLUS
Not only will it include my book, but 4 interviews from bloggers in the dating community about anything and everything that you need to know about dating, building attraction and how to deal with breakups and complicated relationships.
PLUS
2 free bonus e-books!!! This will be sent out to you when my e-book is completed which will be very shortly after this competition. So there you go guys. Have fun. Play to Win =)
Competition officially starts from TODAY and will run for ONE WEEK EXACTLY!
Competition closes 8th June 2008
I look forward to seeing what you all have to say.
Hot Alpha Female
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Oh no, I'm going to jump off a bridge now :P
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Shoot, I don't have anything to really contribute but this:
I say you do a "guys" book and you title it something controversial like:
"The Idiots Guide To Getting In My Pants"... by the Hot Alpha Female
Shit... I'll bet Lance would buy it... lol
That's the best idea ever. I'd buy book that in a heartbeat :p
HAF,
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ugh...i so know, but i so don't know how to word it...grrr...
let me try to explain...one of my biggest issues has been how to deal with that inevitable "so how many times have you been married" question...
now, i know not everyone has been married/divorced multiple times...however, many people have been in, at the least, multiple serious relationships...
so how do you honestly answer that question without scaring the crap outta some poor dude? how do we answer questions about our relationship past, our sexual history, our blah blah blah history honestly and yet not make a potential interest run like hell?
i mean after all, many of us have made mistakes...big ones...but we have learned and grown...we're not the same person we were when we made them...so, how to present them without fear of being judged for them?
How about some info on juggling 3 or more relationships from a womans point of view.
What I want to know is how to find out where a guys stands without bringing up the "talk" (about commitment, being exclusive).
I know guys don't like to talk about the relationship, where it's going, etc. I enjoy dating and living in the moment, but still it can be frustrating. How do you know how he really feels about you and if he thinks you're worthy of "long term" status without bringing the subject up?
My biggest issue is trying not to freak out when things start to get serious. Even when I want it, I become a distant freako! Don't know why, but I just can't help but try to push them away in any way shape or form possible.
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