I’ve got a juicy one for you guys this time round.
If any of you are wondering .. is this really possible?!Can you honestly create attraction even if you don’t have the looks, the car, the money?
Well you guys are going to love what I have to say
Because ……
I believe that not only is this possible, its HIGHLY possible … And it happens everyday.
You know who the ones that have figured out this skill and are using it?
Yes that right. The bad boys, the players, the PUA’s
They have all figured it out …. So now I’m going to let the rest of you know how they do it and why it creates so much dam attraction!
Ok so you want to know what this secret is?
You are going to love it …
Here goes …
Body Langauge
Doesn’t sound nearly as interesting as I made it out to be right? But im telling you …
You guys are in for a treat.
Because body language accounts for more than 90%of the way that we communicate. And let me tell you it’s a whole lot more fun than just talking =)
So for all you guys out there that are frustrated and haven’t quite been able to figure out that just “talking” will not get you anywhere. This one is for YOU!
Because you are going to learn that you can communicate dominance, control and confidence all by the way that you hold youself ..
So lets get stuck into it …..
How you stand
Ok guys that stand very tall and strong are instantly more appealing to chicks. Don’t know what it is, but no matter how butt ugly you are … if by the way you stand exudes confidence and dominance you will have pretty much any girl eating out of the palm of your hand. So this includes standing up straight and tall, usually your legs are wider apart, you have a steady stance. When you are near walls or door you push up against them.
I know, I know, this may sound a little odd .. But it works every single time. Im a chick and I still can’t figure it out. But just take my word on this one.
How comfortable you are
So this means you have to break the touch barrier as soon as possible. This mean when you are talking to a chick you are fairly laid back and relaxed. But when you make a joke or want to show her something, then you should lean in, be close and lightly touch her on the shoulder.
Once you break this touch barrier early on it helps you move past the obstacle of being called a friend in the future. Because friends are the guys that we label as” too nice” in a sense we cant feel attracted to them, because they are more like brothers then lovers. If you know what I’m saying. And well I don’t know about you. But dating someone like my brother would totally not appeal to me, nor most other chicks for that matter. So heres a piece of golden advice. If you like a girl, then don’t fall victim to the “let just be friends” syndrome. It would just be easier to jump off a bridge.
How You Look At Her
Ok heres the thing guys. Girls don’t really like to be peeeeer-veeeed on so much that they start to feel like an “object” rather than a human being. Girls like attention don’t get me wrong. But when a guy comes along and makes it so obvious that he is checking her out it is an INSTANT turn off. Notice I said turn OFF and not turn ON. This is especially true because there is no challenge for the chick at all. She knows you have the hots for her and that you could be eating out of the palm of her hand any second. And well lets face it, that doesn’t go in your favor when it comes to building attraction.
But the one way to show that you are genuinely interested and not like the rest of the other guys, is to make direct and meaningful EYE contact with her. If you make a joke or are in a conversation with her, make sure that you look into her eyes and no where else. Gaze into them, but be exceptionally comfortable when you do it. This kind of eye contact captures a girls attention. And she likes this attention, because it’s the right sort.
Just remember one thing. Beautiful girls love to be told that they are smart. Smart girls love to be told that they are beautiful. In other words as a general rule give a chick what she doesn’t usually hear. That is the only way you are going to gain and keep her attention.
How You Speak
I know it’s not so much to do with body language, but it’s relevant here because it goes along the general principle of “It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it”. The thing is, chicks love guys with a lower/deeper voices. It’s much more attractive when a guy has a low, deep and contained voice.
If any of you are wondering .. is this really possible?!Can you honestly create attraction even if you don’t have the looks, the car, the money?
Well you guys are going to love what I have to say
Because ……
I believe that not only is this possible, its HIGHLY possible … And it happens everyday.
You know who the ones that have figured out this skill and are using it?
Yes that right. The bad boys, the players, the PUA’s
They have all figured it out …. So now I’m going to let the rest of you know how they do it and why it creates so much dam attraction!
Ok so you want to know what this secret is?
You are going to love it …
Here goes …
Body Langauge
Doesn’t sound nearly as interesting as I made it out to be right? But im telling you …
You guys are in for a treat.
Because body language accounts for more than 90%of the way that we communicate. And let me tell you it’s a whole lot more fun than just talking =)
So for all you guys out there that are frustrated and haven’t quite been able to figure out that just “talking” will not get you anywhere. This one is for YOU!
Because you are going to learn that you can communicate dominance, control and confidence all by the way that you hold youself ..
So lets get stuck into it …..
How you stand
Ok guys that stand very tall and strong are instantly more appealing to chicks. Don’t know what it is, but no matter how butt ugly you are … if by the way you stand exudes confidence and dominance you will have pretty much any girl eating out of the palm of your hand. So this includes standing up straight and tall, usually your legs are wider apart, you have a steady stance. When you are near walls or door you push up against them.
I know, I know, this may sound a little odd .. But it works every single time. Im a chick and I still can’t figure it out. But just take my word on this one.
How comfortable you are
So this means you have to break the touch barrier as soon as possible. This mean when you are talking to a chick you are fairly laid back and relaxed. But when you make a joke or want to show her something, then you should lean in, be close and lightly touch her on the shoulder.
Once you break this touch barrier early on it helps you move past the obstacle of being called a friend in the future. Because friends are the guys that we label as” too nice” in a sense we cant feel attracted to them, because they are more like brothers then lovers. If you know what I’m saying. And well I don’t know about you. But dating someone like my brother would totally not appeal to me, nor most other chicks for that matter. So heres a piece of golden advice. If you like a girl, then don’t fall victim to the “let just be friends” syndrome. It would just be easier to jump off a bridge.
How You Look At Her
Ok heres the thing guys. Girls don’t really like to be peeeeer-veeeed on so much that they start to feel like an “object” rather than a human being. Girls like attention don’t get me wrong. But when a guy comes along and makes it so obvious that he is checking her out it is an INSTANT turn off. Notice I said turn OFF and not turn ON. This is especially true because there is no challenge for the chick at all. She knows you have the hots for her and that you could be eating out of the palm of her hand any second. And well lets face it, that doesn’t go in your favor when it comes to building attraction.
But the one way to show that you are genuinely interested and not like the rest of the other guys, is to make direct and meaningful EYE contact with her. If you make a joke or are in a conversation with her, make sure that you look into her eyes and no where else. Gaze into them, but be exceptionally comfortable when you do it. This kind of eye contact captures a girls attention. And she likes this attention, because it’s the right sort.
Just remember one thing. Beautiful girls love to be told that they are smart. Smart girls love to be told that they are beautiful. In other words as a general rule give a chick what she doesn’t usually hear. That is the only way you are going to gain and keep her attention.
How You Speak
I know it’s not so much to do with body language, but it’s relevant here because it goes along the general principle of “It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it”. The thing is, chicks love guys with a lower/deeper voices. It’s much more attractive when a guy has a low, deep and contained voice.
Heres an example. Say the first guy is a guy who has a high pitched voice and is very animated in the way that he talks. He is a fast talker and laughs at his own jokes. Now compare him to a guy that is laid back in the way that he speaks, answers most questions with a question and doesn’t give too much away.
Now this might seem really obvious but I can guarantee you that if a chick were approached by these two different guys then she would choose the second one. She might not know why she chose the second one … but she would.
So this one if for all the guys that were clueless … But now are now more enlightened. This one is for all the great guys out there .. that can’t seem to figure it out. This one is for the nice guy .. who needs to discover that by JUST being nice .. isn’t how you win the game .. nor the girl ….
Hot Alpha Female
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So this one if for all the guys that were clueless … But now are now more enlightened. This one is for all the great guys out there .. that can’t seem to figure it out. This one is for the nice guy .. who needs to discover that by JUST being nice .. isn’t how you win the game .. nor the girl ….
Hot Alpha Female
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Body language and sub-communication is critical to attraction, but it's not at the CORE. The core of attraction is actually BEING an attractive, self-realized, cool, fun, chilled person. You can't fake it. You have to work on yourself until you actually are that person. For men, find your purpose, be driven, and make yourself into a warrior-king. After that, body language and attraction is a cinch.
Hi lance,
Well since you call yourself a PUA ill take your word for it =)
But yes i would have to agree.
I mean i have discovered that how rich your dating life is and the relationships around you, is a reflection of what is going on, in the inside.
If you have this self love and confidence within yourself, then this is reflected outside through your body language.
Thanks Lance
Hot Alpha Female
to lance,
..self realized?...find your purpose?...does the average man really work on these?.......
often times it takes an awakening or realization of dissatisfaction with the current state of affairs that spawns this revolution within. i'm not swimming in snatch now, but i'm much more interested in discovering my unfolding purpose as a person first..and awareness of these acute details has been gold thus far in my voyage.
HAF, you wrote above that "how rich your dating life is and the relationships around you, is a reflection of what is going on, in the inside". This is true, but maybe not for the reasons you mean.
I'm an attractive, professional, very smart guy. I love myself. I have a big heart, but also plenty of confidence. I have no problem talking to women (other than being a little out of practice). I'm a great guy, in general. But I am alone, lonely, and angry, both at what's happening in the world and at women.
Not one woman has ever asked me out or struck up a conversation with me. It IS NNNOOOOTTTTT FUN!!! You women want men who are fun, but you never seem to consider the fact that us good men, who support women's equality, would like to be approached, even just once in a while. You women never consider the idea that you make some of us men, especially us good men who are very intelligent, feel like shit.
And then, you disregard us because of our natural reaction of hurt and anger that YOU CAUSE. This creates a vicious circle in which we're punished and alone.
I am a great guy trapped in a prison of pain created by a world of average people (near-idiots) and women, both smart and average, who are hypocrites.
I laud you for posting this blog. It gives a valuable insight into the true nature of many women and dispels many of the residual Victorian-era falsehoods men believe about the "fairer sex."
Women often complain about men playing games/playing the field/running bs, but ultimately, women are just as guilty of these practices. Many guys live under the assumption that women are naturally given to greater depth of conscience than men, that they are inherently benevolent in their dealings with others. Not true at all.
Essentially, there are a certain number of women out there just trolling for attention the same way there are men trolling for sex. Who wins/loses the "game" is a matter of who is more predatory, and who is ultimately shallow enough to play it.
Bravo GoodCuteSmartGuy!
yes,its annoying to say the least that "alpha women" don't do their part in mating etc too. Its a pain in the ass that men are expected to jump through hoops all the time yet where in this whole blog is there any post about what women can do for men?!
Btw,chin up mate and look for a better woman,they are out there!
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